When Your Blog Doesn't Even Show Up on Google --- 🌙 Hi, this is Alaris. Today, I want to share something straight from my heart. When I first started this blog, my biggest dream was to connect with people around the world. And maybe, if things went well, earn a little income through blogging too. So I kept writing, little by little, day after day. But these days, the hardest part is that there's not just no income — there are literally zero visitors. 😢 At first, I wondered why. That’s when I learned about something called Google Search Console. ⛳ I’m not someone who’s good with computers. I didn’t even know where to start. But for the past three weeks, I’ve been trying — submitting URLs, uploading sitemaps, setting up RSS feeds — doing everything I could think of. And still, my blog doesn’t show up. Honestly, it’s been crushing my spirit. When I first started, I was full of hope. I wanted to share what I was learning about the seven companies I’m studying. I wanted to share o...
Tonight, I Was Just as Tired as You
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The most painful part of human relationships is when it feels like you don’t have a choice.
When you feel powerless.
When there’s no clear solution.
When everything feels stuck and heavy.
And it’s even harder when you’re the one trying.
When you’re putting in the effort, but nothing is changing.
When the more you care, the more it hurts.
That’s when it truly breaks you.
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🧠 We’ve all been there.
So many moments in life feel too heavy because of other people.
Sometimes, we get attached to someone for no real reason.
It’s not even that big of a deal—but your heart doesn’t care.
You react deeply to every little word, every little action.
In times like that, you need to sort through your feelings.
Take a breath and quietly whisper to yourself:
> “Yeah, that’s just how they are.”
“So that’s who you are.”
“You really hurt me.”
Oddly, it brings a bit of relief.
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But let’s be honest—
Even knowing all that doesn’t make it any easier to accept.
Logically, you get it.
But your heart? Your heart keeps aching.
So when nothing else works,
the only thing left is to choose.
Maybe you choose to take a step back.
Maybe you decide to say something.
Or maybe you just let go in your heart.
Whatever it is—
That choice belongs to you.
And that’s how you protect yourself.
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💼 I’ve been there too.
There was someone at work I couldn’t stand.
But I still showed up every morning.
Why?
Because honestly, it was better to stay there than find a new job.
Quitting wasn’t really an option.
So I made the choice to keep going.
I reminded myself:
> “I’m not going because of them—
I’m going because I need to earn money.”
That shift changed everything.
I was still tired,
but it didn’t feel as helpless anymore.
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🌿 The key was realizing this:
Even if the situation doesn’t change, how I see it can.
If I choose to stay, that’s my choice.
If I choose to distance myself, that’s mine too.
Even just thinking that way made things feel lighter.
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So tonight, I wanted to speak to you—
To anyone who’s struggling with someone in their life.
You’re not alone.
I’m tired too.
We all are.
But some of us… we keep living anyway.
We sort our thoughts.
We carry our emotions.
And even when it still hurts,
we tell ourselves:
> “I chose this today.”
That makes all the difference.
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🕯️ This note was quietly brought to you by Keeper Alaris.
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